Difference between Women and Girls

Ek het gedink dis fan-blerrie-tasties…en nogals waar!  Judge for yourself!

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Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls try to put a man ‘on lock’ by using sex.
Grown women know that it’s the sex of the mental kind that makes a
man want to ‘lock’ you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, “Just stop”, get up, get dressed, and walk out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it– using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any
man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (I.e don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special — and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ‘show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls like to hear things like “I love you”
Grown women understand that  if a person is with her it is because of many reasons, one of them is that he wants to be with her.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn’t always love you back — and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown Women !!
and men who needs to know the difference.

8 Responses

  1. Dit is so waar..

    En so het ons almal seker maar ‘n “girl” moment of 2 gehad.

  2. Baie waar Pagoda! Ek stem saam met Koekie – ons girls is seker maar almal aan een of ander sonde hier bo skuldig!

  3. ‘n Hele paar is debateerbaar as daar heelwat daarbuite is wat hulleself Grown Woman wil noem. Is daar ‘n age-expiry date vir dei oorskakeling?😆

  4. Hehehe demoerin. Ek weet nie of hierdie een ‘n age-expiry date het nie. Jy kan 60 wees en nogsteeds die “girl” ding doen of jy kan 19 wees en soos ‘n “grown woman” optree.
    Dis maar net wat ek dink.

  5. Hey, en wat van die manne?! Ek ken ‘n hele paar in ons vriendekring wat die maturity van ‘n 10 jarige seuntjie het.

  6. Annie – hehe..ja, nou praat jy.

  7. Nee Annie ons mans is maar fyngevoelig en lekker jaloers , ons sal dit nie sommer erken nie.

    Ja girls sal alle mans blameer oor een ou wat kak aangejaag het, maar matured woman weet van beter.

  8. Brein, en hoe verdien jy nou nie my respek nie – dit kos ‘n man op ‘n perd en nie ‘n meid op ‘n vark om dit te erken nie. Dit is die meeste mans se probleem en hulle sal eerder vrek as om dit te erken. Ek haal my hoed af vir jou!!

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